Please be aware of your feelings as I ask you these questions. You may feel a nervous tension in the stomach, a tingling sensation, goosebumps, heavy breathing, racing pulse, a moistness, your eyes may water, an aching hollow feeling in your pelvic area, nervous fidgeting, shaking hands, and other signs these questions are penetrating you in the deepest ways when you come up with the answers in your head.
What's one way you get your lover to do what you want them to?
Have you ever been over at the house of a girlfriend, or boyfriend and for a moment they're out of the room and their answering machine picks up a call from someone that is obviously having sex with them? What did you do? What would you do?
What was the worst way you discovered that a lover was cheating on you? What did you do? What would you like to have done?
Has anyone ever been violent to you? What happened? How did you feel? Did you get help? What happened to the violent person? How did you get over it, if you did? Your story may empower someone else to break free!
Have you ever said, "Honey, while you're up, can you get me a ....?" What was it that you wanted and what was the reaction you got? Has it ever been asked of you? How did you feel?
Have you ever had anything stolen from you? What was it? How did it feel? Did you ever figure out who did it? What did you want to do to the person that did it?
What's the worst haircut disaster you ever had going to a salon, beauty parlor, friend's house... What happened? Was it so bad you couldn't go out in pubic? What did you do? How did you feel?
Sometimes I feel stupid! There are times where I will tell a woman, "I think you're so beautiful!" and then she'll make a face and say, "But I'm not wearing makeup, my hair isn't washed, I'm wearing shitty clothes because I was cleaning, I'm wearing glasses cause I don't have my contacts in..." I wish I was able to see people as they are on the outside more than just on the inside. Maybe my life would be easier. Do you ever think of ways other than your current behavior, that might make it easier for you to interact with a potential lover?
Thank you for you honest answers. You may leave your panties off for the rest of our time together.
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